To our family and friends, welcome to our wedding website! Join us in the countdown until we say "I do." You can find all the details you need to know about our big day here. The countdown until our forever is on!
Cotilya & J
October 18, 2025 • Wheaton-Glenmont, MD
196 Days To Go!
To our family and friends, welcome to our wedding website! Join us in the countdown until we say "I do." You can find all the details you need to know about our big day here. The countdown until our forever is on!
Cotilya & J
October 18, 2025 • Wheaton-Glenmont, MD
196 Days To Go!
Questions & Answers
Do you have a wedding registry ?
No. We will not create a wedding registry.
What date should I RSVP by?
Please RSVP by July 31, 2025.
Will your wedding be indoors or outdoors?
The plan is for the wedding and cocktail hour to be held outdoors if the weather permits. If not, then all of the activities will be held inside.
Is there parking available near your wedding venue?
Yes.
Have you reserved blocks of rooms at one or more hotels?
Yes. The link is on the Hotel Details section of this page.
What is the closest airport, train, or bus station?
Airports: Ronald Regan National Airport/ BWI International Thurgood Marshall Airport.
Bus Station: Silver Spring, MD/ Union Station
Amtrak: Union Station, DC
What is the wedding dress code?
Garden party/ semi-formal attire. Be sure to wear comfortable shoes, so you can walk around and enjoy the garden.
Are there any colors or styles you'd prefer me to wear?
No.
What is the weather like in the area?
I would expect 70-75 degrees. Please be sure to check weather.com as we get closer to the date.
Am I allowed to bring my children?
The parents of the invited children have been notified. We ask that no other children attend.
What type of food will be served at the wedding?
Edible food. TBD
Will there be an open bar?
No.
What is the wedding day itinerary?
Ceremony start time? 4:00 PM
Cocktail hour start time? 4:45 PM
Reception start time? 6:00 PM
What time should I arrive at your wedding ceremony?
3:45 PM.
What time will the wedding reception end? Is there an after- party?
10 PM. NO.
Will there be a time gap between your wedding ceremony and reception?
Yes. The Cocktail hour.
Could you suggest places to eat, drink, and see while I am in town for your wedding?
Please check the Things To Do section of this website for more information about local shops and eateries in downtown Silver Spring.
Will there be other events to attend on the wedding weekend?
No. We want you to enjoy/ explore the area.
Am I allowed to take photos at your wedding?
Yes. Please use our hashtag: #alwayscotilyaandj if you will be posting them to social media.
Can I post wedding photos on social media?
Yes.
What is your wedding hashtag?
#Alwayscotilyandj
What are your wedding colors?
Our wedding colors are burgundy, navy, and gold. The accent colors are cream and blush.
Will there be an online photo album?
Yes. QR codes will be available on our wedding day with the link to our online wedding album.